literally no matter how vile tumblr gets about bisexuals (esp bi women) it will never be as bad as twitter on a good day. christ all fucking mighty

Man Residue is what I call the lingering effects of traumatic experiences on my brain ✌️

youre gonna hate this so much but thats actually literally what that woman said man residue was, she said that being with men is pretty much inherently traumatic and causes irreparable damage to a bi woman.

let me unpack every point about how fucking horrific that is lol:

• “relationships with men damage you forever” and then saying it’s not about bi women being tainted or anything you’re just DamagedTM inherently by being with men
• which apparently only applies to bi women and not like, lesbians who were in relationships with men or straight women
• and also the implications for mlm aren’t great either
• hell the fucking ghastly implications for like, bi wlw abuse victims, especially when you see that bi people and bi women in particular have the highest rate of domestic abuse of any sexuality, talk about further victim-blaming
• just interacting with men and having a romantic relationship with them makes you inherently less able to love or treat people with respect
• (legit look at op’s other comments)

• this is some genuine radfem uh sorry Materialist Feminist TM dumbassery right here and once again it’s so telling that these people keep saying this shit about bi wlw in particular more than anybody else!!!!
• yall really think lesbian separatism is new and good, that women are inherently more Pure and soft and kind and let’s be honest you’re all for gold star lesbians, buddies this isn’t the 80s anymore lol
• calling bi women emotionally stunted and predatory.... groundbreaking lmao
• when are people gonna stop going on bout how bi wlw center men and are tained by men and obsessed by men (or when you’re more honest about your transmisogyny bc v often you guys will then use that rhetoric to talk about trans women, saying bi women are tainted by penis), when will this end, maybe when you guys stop reading rich and wittig and dworkin and thinking that they’re cool and radical mayhaps
• or maybe when you do get hurt by other women and suddenly realize that you’re not inherently ideologically pure and soft by virtue of being afab uh a Wombyn Woman
• also hey once again jesus christ what the fuck are you guys saying to bi women who’ve been abused regardless of the gender of who abused them, how the fuck is saying “bi women are damaged goods and obsessive and inherently a little evil and obsessed” any kind of great
• op is bi and clearly has issues but all her lesbian besties are crying lesbophobia and saying it’s evil and lesbophobic to “not let lesbians talk about their issues” like being able to call bi women tainted goods or predatory
• funny earlier this month a major lesbian comedian said that bi people are all inherently predatory and dangerous but none of them said shit but g-d forbid a bi teen somewhere make a slightly oblivious comment either
• in conclusion radical feminism (and its newly rebranded coat of Materialist Feminism TM) are absolute horror shows