Needed all this

Yes to all of this!

1. Infatuation that is not grounded in reality isn’t love

2. Expecting flawless perfection from your partner isn’t love

3. Not ever feeling comfortable or able to be vulnerable isn’t love

4. Not really wanting to be near your partner and avoid them isn’t love

5. If you are distant and disconnected in thoughts, then it isn’t love

6. If you are frequently anxious and constantly stressed directly due to your partner, then it isn’t love

Love is work, but it is worthwhile, not destructive.